Have you heard the phrase; he/she marches to the beat of a different drummer? It’s meant as a backhanded compliment indicating that she/he is not like us.
I don’t think the kind of community, the kind of connections God wants us to have should be based on finding people just like us and building walls to keep the others out.
God’s the drummer and He has a different beat for each of us.
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I have never seen this as a back handed compliment. I guess I am weird. I always thought it is absolutely courageous to be different. I relish it! I have always seen it as a great compliment…Color me to a different beat of the drums and dancing all over the place.